It’s that vital moment at the end of a second or third date, and it’s clear that you dig each other. It’s not serious (yet), but it’s certainly not casual anymore. At this point, you’re going to either make out like high-schoolers, or peck each other politely and go home.Enter perfect mood music.

This is just my own make-out music list, and you can either use it or make your own. Anyway, it’s a good place to start but don’t be afraid to strike out on your own – make your own CD compilation of kissing tunes. Go over your own music collection to come up with the perfect mix, or use a legal download site to assemble the grooviest songs for getting your groove on.

On the Internet there are a lot of various dating services and dating tips sites availible to help you.

A couple of pointers: guys, it’s usually not a good idea to just flip on some Led Zeppelin and expect her to swoon. Likewise, ladies, just because Jewel does it for you doesn’t mean it’s going to make him feel romantic.

Here it goes:

• Radiohead – Talk Show Host
• Bill Withers – Just The Two of Us
• The Smashing Pumpkins - Thirty-Three
• U2 – In a Little While
• Al Green - How Can You Mend A Broken Heart
• Air - Playground Love
• Todd Rungren - A Dream Goes On Forever
• Heart – Crazy On You
• Elvis Costello - She

Have your own picks for the perfect music to set the mood? Email them to us – we’d love to hear from you!

True love may be on the top or your holiday wish list, but according to a nationwide “Holidating” survey, most of you people don’t expect to meet that special someone during the holiday season.

This survey covered more than 1,200 singles and asked whether they, or someone they know, had ever met someone unique during the holidays. Both men and women responded devastatingly (79 percent) “no.”

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The leaves are falling. The temperature is going down. The Night is coming earlier. It’s the perfect time for you to fall in love!

Try these six fall date ideas to put a little spice into the cooler days and nights.

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