Just fire up those guns!
16 Apr
She won’t make the first move. If she does, she’s not shy.
She won’t say much at first, because you’re a new person. It’s not at all you. It’s just that she doesn’t know you well enough yet.
Start with a joke, after that ask her where she’s from. Maybe even what kind of music she’s into.
Get her talking about what SHE likes. They’ll feel better around you if you’ve got something in common.
Try talking about the things she likes.
The last time you got drunk with your friends gets a little bring after a while. Tell her smart, interesting things.
If you’re not dating her, she probably won’t grab your hand.
She definitely won’t pull away from you if she likes you though.
When she gets at ease around you, and starts talking about her problems, don’t ALWAYS give advice. Sometimes people just want to be heard.
When she talks, listen closely, and don’t interrupt.
When I say listen, I mean LISTEN. She’ll catch you if you’re not paying attention, and she’ll lose trust in you.
Don’t make fun of her.
If she’s self conscious already, it’ll make her feel horrible!
Don’t bring up the embarrassing things. They’ll make her feel stupid.
Tell her when her makeup is messing up. It’ll make her feel stupid walking around with running make up all day.
Compliment her.
Not all the time. If you say it too much, she’ll stop believing you.
When a girl argues about if she’s pretty, she really is just hoping you’ll disagree. Whether she admits it or not. Although, this doesn’t ALWAYS happen.
Be nice to her friends. If you don’t like one, she’ll probably never bring around any, ever again.
She wants to be able to tell you everything.
There’s nothing better than coming home to a hug and a kiss, and the person you love saying “Hello sweetie. How was your day today?”
And don’t let her get away with just saying, “it was okay” make her explain at least some good parts.
NEVER laugh at her when she tells you something important.
Laugh WITH her if she does something embarrassing.
Remember her favorite kind of potato chips.
They may be quiet, but they hate repeating themselves 18 times in a row.
She loves it when you brag about her to your friends.
DON’T LIE.
She will figure it out sooner or later, and the later, the more she’ll **** you over. Shy girls can be vicious to.
Most shy girls are actually amazing sweet hearts, and, if you know how to be a good boy friend to her, and she’ll be the best girl friend you’ve ever had.
Tell her what you like.
Appreciate and notice the small things.
If she doesn’t want to do something, be patient, wait a while. She’ll remember you like that. And eventually she’ll do it on her own.
Don’t talk about other chicks’ tits, or how hot that girl in science class was. It’ll make her feel ugly, and insignificant.
She’ll want to hide more things about her.
And whenever she’s around the person you were talking about, she’ll feel majorly uncomfortable.