Here’s something really fresh for everyone out there looking for love. There’s this new concept of speed dating, it’s speed dating online. The pioneers, MixYourWorlds, have a unique approach to the world of online dating.

In the real world you would go to a club, or some sort of meeting place, to do speed dating. You sit face to face with someone else and have just a few minutes to get to know each other. When the bell rings you move on to the next person in line.

MixYourWorlds speed dating works the same way. First you choose the room you want to be in, this will depend a lot on what you’re looking for. If you don’t find a speed dating room you like, you’re welcome to create your own.

When the timer goes off you get to chat with someone for five minutes. While you’re chatting with your partner you’ll be able to see and read their profile. Find out more about them this way and also view their photos.

When the five minutes are up, you’ll be asked if there was a connection between you and your partner. If you think you’d like to get to know him/her better you click “yes”. If they also click “yes”, you’ll be added to each other’s friend list.

Then you can try again with another partner. A new round starts every ten minutes in every room. Every ten minutes you’ll have the chance to meet another person and possibly have them added to your friend list. Who knows what could happen from there.

How many times do you find yourself walking down the street or in a restaurant, or whatever and you see a woman to whom you feel attracted, and suddenly your eyes meet?

She glances and smiles at you OR not, but it doesn’t really matter. Tell me what happens most of the time? You will probably keep on walking or she will leave and you won’t ever see each other again. If this is happening to you, you’re wasting gold opportunities to score!

Here’s what you have to do next time. After you passed her you should stop for a second and turn around a look at her. If she looks back, just wave at her and show your best smile. Make it look a friendly smile; you don’t want to creep her out!

Now it’s time to find out how interested that girl is. If she waves back at you then she is ready to be approached, and you have to move fast. Go talk to her immediately. Don’t think too much about what to say. Just go talk to her and introduce yourself and ask her if she would like to have a cup of coffee with you.

Keep the conversation casual when you’re talking to her, and then tell her you have to leave, but don’t leave without asking her number. After a couple of days call her and try to get to know her more over the phone. When you know enough about her, ask her out on a date.

Don’t ask her out on a casual date, like Friday night dinner and movies. Instead, ask her if she wants to have lunch with you on a day of the week. This is good because it takes away the anxiety and expectations of a normal date. Just go out and have fun!

Get on your dancing shoes! Tonight we’re going to learn how to talk to girls. First of all, a lot of people asked for an article about “how to approach a girl“. I told you already in another article that approaching women is not the hardest thing. To be honest, it’s easiest thing in the world. You simply go to her and say “hi” or some joke. The less easier part it’s when you have to talk to her. Make her laugh, make her have a good time with you. My article about pick-up lines is exactly about that subject. Check it out later.

Here’s some of my guidelines when approaching/talking to a girl:

1 - No sucking up! She’ll assume your just making conversation and not interested in her, and the chit-chat will eventually become dull… In some worst case scenarios she will see you as a needy person which is really bad.

2 - When you’re with your male friends you always have a good time don’t you? You laugh out of idiot stuff, you’re always joking around and you don’t worry about what you say. You have to apply that same spirit when you’re talking to a girl, instead of getting all serious. When you stop being yourself out of fear of saying something stupid you lose your creativity and become really boring.

3 - Don’t stress. It’s really hard to talk when you’re nervous, not just because the words won’t come out well but also because you won’t be able to think about something to say. If you have some common ground with her, then it should be easy to find a conversation topic. If you don’t you should practice your conversation skills, not just with women, but everyone you meet on the street.

4 -  Act like a kid. I’m not telling you to be a spoiled brat, but to be yourself. When you were a kid it didn’t matter if you said something silly. To be honest the point was to be silly. You probably called names or wrestled on the dirt, and all that just to have a good laugh. A lot of the people I know stop playing because they are afraid of others looking at them in a negative way. What most people don’t know is that this is a great way to flirt and it’s important in every relationship. It builds tension and it makes you look confident and fun.