Are you not getting as much sex as you would like?

Author: datinggun

10 Oct

Are you not getting as much sex as you would like? Are you getting too many “I’ve got a headache” excuses? If you do, this is the article for you. Learn how to have more sex by following these guidelines.

Do what you’re supposed to do!

Women have a very good memory. If you promised something to your girlfriend and didn’t act in accordance with that promise, then prepare to receive the “I’ve got a headache” answer. If you’re not doing your common house shores or simply calling her when you said you would then she will feel let down by you, and that is a big turn off for women. Start dividing the shores correctly and make sure to fulfill your promises, and you’ll get fewer headaches excuses. If you think a woman’s place is in the kitchen while you lay in the sofa (watching the game, having a bud) then you don’t even deserve the company of a lady.

Timing

I read a study about sex and libido timing a couple of months ago and it said there that man and women hormones concentration differs a lot during a 24h period. I can’t remember exactly the timing, but let’s say for example, women hormones concentration was bigger during the morning and men’s was during the night. So, the question is how about you start “taking notes” and memorize the periods when she’s hornier. Instead of waiting for her to be ready all the time, start predicting when she’s ready and approach her at the right times. If someone can find that study, I would really appreciate it. I read about it on a magazine but there’s probably something about it on the net.

She’s not enjoying it

What would sex be without the orgasms? Did it cross your mind already that she might not be having as much fun as you do? Even if she tells you that she liked it, you should make sure she really enjoyed it, by having a conversation with her about your sexuality. This is something to talk about when sex is not present. Don’t talk about it after having sex or in the middle of the action. Talk to her about your relationship and ask her about what she likes in bed. If you ask her in a natural way, she’ll feel more comfortable to talk about it. Don’t show her any signs of worry about your sexual performance, because she will lie and just say that everything is fine. Why? Because she knows this is a delicate matter and she doesn’t want to hurt your ego. Start dedicating more time to know her body and what really turns her on. A lot of the times the problem is related with foreplay. Take a look at our article about “Erogenous Zones”, that’s a good start.

Sex, it’s all in her head

No matter what anyone says, sex is all about what goes through your brain. People get turned on by simply listening to the right words or watching the right images. Try to establish other types of contact beside touch. Send her a text message telling her how much she turns you on or how sexy she looked that day. Phone her and tell her about what’s going to happen later that night. Take her out and have fun together, or prepare her a romantic candle light dinner. Whatever you do make sure you fill her life with excitement.

That’s it guys. Be fair with your wives or girlfriends, ask them what they like in bed and last but not least: make them feel alive. I guarantee she will wrinkle her head a lot less and you’ll have lot more sex.