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We’ve all been through it, and we all know how stressful it can be. No matter how we do it, either personally or by phone it’s always a relief when we get the answer, especially if it’s positive.
In this article I’ll describe some techniques that I’ve learn by reading some material specifically on how to ask stuff to people, and not just asking out people on dates. If you want to avoid any kind of rejection and still ask a girl out, follow the next tips.

The how-to

First of all I want you to deeply think about what you’re doing when you’re asking a girl out. You’re simply asking a “question”. Now, I want you to think about those occasions that occur in everyone’s lives in which instead of making a question, you simply declare or suggest something, in order to obtain an answer.

Here’s an example: Let’s say Mary from the cleaning department is pissed at John from the accounting department, and you want to know the reason why, but you don’t want to look like a nosy guy. You would probably go to John and tell him: “Wow! I just saw Mary, and she was really pissed.”

John could just tell you what happened or he could avoid telling you the whole thing by saying something like: “Yeah, we kind of have a little discussion.” You could just leave it there or you could develop the story by saying: “Oh. Ok. I thought it was something really big because she was really angry. I started wondered what you did to her to make her so pissed!”
That would make John start talking for sure, and tell me how many interrogations you saw on that example? Exactly, zero. Now that you know the rules let’s move on and apply it to dating.

Applying it to dating

In the dating field, the suggestions work a lot better than anything else. Let me show you another example to get you going. Let’s say you want to ask Mary out on a date. You could come up with a good suggestion like this: “I went to that new restaurant near “whatever” and they have this marvelous wine. You should come along one of this days Mary. I bet you would love it.”

If she’s minimally interested in you, she will not waste the chance of spending some quality time with you. If she’s not interested she won’t be able to say “No” because you didn’t ask her anything. So guess what? You’re invulnerable to the shame of rejection. It works every time. Just one last thing, make sure you’re transmitting confidence when you suggest that, you don’t want to sound like a kid that just got out of a teenager series. If you need some help to improve your confidence levels, click on this article.

The old fashioned tactic – Asking!

The first thing you should know is that you’re the one who has to make the move. It’s your job to ask her out. Don’t expect miracles and don’t waste all the good chances, you will probably have, to ask her out. You’re the man, and she’s the woman, you open the doors, you give her your coat and you ask her out on a date.

Speaking of wasting chances, that’s exactly what we are going to discuss now. There are some rules regarding the best time to ask someone out. First of all, be discreet. That’s probably why the phone works so well. Basically, avoid big groups when you’re asking her out. The second rule is that women need to feel safe when they are going out on a date. So the best thing is not to pressure them or put them on the spot.

When it comes to “where”, your suggestion of a place will depend on what you know about her. If you don’t know anything relevant, suggest some trendy restaurant. Women love food and drinks, especially in a good atmosphere.

That’s pretty much it. Don’t forget to finish the date by politely telling her that you had a great time, and you would like to go out with her again. If everything went smooth during the date, then you should have a second date scheduled.