Whenever you are being asked out you will want to know whether or not it is genuine. It can be really disappointing to end up getting asked out only to find out that they did not actually want to go out with you. Make sure that you know how to tell whether or not a person is really actually excited to go out on a date with you.


You should really consider the situation that you were both in when they asked. If there were a lot of people around, then they may have been doing it for show. Think about what was going on before they asked and what went on after they asked. If you feel like they are up to something, then consider who they may have been talking to before they approached you to ask you out on a date. If they seemed nervous when they asked, then they are probably genuine. However, if they seemed bored or nonchalant, then they’re probably not interested. Is it a date they are after or just sex, ask yourself if you have seen them out and about with loads of different partners, has he a known history of NSA dates, check that the location of the meet isn’t a known pick up spot for swingers the more checks you make the more confidence you will have, ask around.


If you make it to the date consider how they act. A lot of people that are on a date that they don’t want to be on will be easy to read. Pay attention to their body language. If they are leaning away from you and not looking at you, then they are not interested. They may end up having their arms crossed and shifting themselves to be away from you. If they are doing these things, then they probably never wanted to be on the date so don’t waste your time.