Help Diverting Flirts

Apr 27
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There are a few things that you will be able to do that will help you in diverting flirts. This is something that can be really annoying and can end up ruining a night. Whether you are simply not interested or not looking to get hit on you will find that there are a few things that you can do that will help the situation.

Friend’s Help

If you happen to be out with your friends, then you are in luck. You can get a friend to come along and help you to get away. Usually, a friend will be able to help you get out of a situation by either getting you away from them or at the very least, pretending they are your boyfriend/girlfriend.

Be Blunt

If you’re out by yourself or your friends are nowhere to be found you may just need to take things into your own hands. Tell them that you are not interested and that you want them to leave. You don’t have to be rude but you may need to be right on the edge of rude so that they get the point.

Leave

You may end up needing to leave the area. Either leave the building, or leave where this person seems to be. They will eventually get the hint if you keep dodging them. If they don’t, then threaten to get security or simply leave the area all together. Some people have trouble taking a hint. If you are with friends make sure that they know where you are.

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Getting Out of an Awkward Date

Mar 24
Posted by admin Filed in Date Excuses, Flirt Divert Tips

If you find yourself in an awkward date then you will also find yourself wanting to get out. There are a few things that you can do that will allow you to be able to escape an awkward situation. Whether they are not what you expected or they are just making you feel uncomfortable make sure that you are able to get yourself out of there without making a scene.

Fake an Emergency

While this is something that is usually frowned upon it is sometimes unavoidable. You may need to fake an emergency so that you can have an excuse to rush out of the date and never look back. The fake emergency will usually seem more genuine when you have a friend to help. Excuse yourself to the bathroom and tell a friend to call you and tell you that they need you to come quick, tell them that you’re not feeling well and have to visit the local GUM clinic in the morning as you fear that you may have contracted an STD during your last swingers sex session.

Bow Out Gracefully

If you are not much of an actor, then you may want to try another route; honesty. You can simply tell the person that it is not going to work out and that you don’t want to waste anymore of their time. They may not like to hear it but it will allow you to leave without faking anything.

Tough it Out

If worse comes to worse you may just have to tough it out. Just try to keep yourself entertained and prepared to get out of there when the date is over. At the very least you can have something to laugh about with your friends the next day when you tell them all about it.

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How to Say No to a Nice Guy

Feb 20
Posted by admin Filed in Flirt Divert Tips

Learning how to say no to a nice guy is something that can be really difficult to do. You will find that there aren’t a lot of nice guys out there so you really need to make sure that you let him down easy. If a girl is mean enough to a nice guy then he can turn into a real jerk fast.

Think About It

You really need to think about why you are saying no to this guy. If you can’t come up with a reason, then maybe you need to reconsider. A lot of girls will turn down nice guys only because they are used to dating jerks. If you have a bad habit of bad boys then maybe you need to give this nice guy a chance.

Careful Wording

If you have good reasoning for turning this guy down, then make sure that you choose your words carefully. You don’t want to end up saying anything cliché as this will only make it more difficult on him. Try not to mention the word “friend” and let him know how you really feel. Don’t let him feel like it is something that he did wrong unless it was. If he is a nice guy, then make sure that he knows that by telling him.

Genuine

Don’t feed him some line. Even if you carefully word something where you don’t give him the dreaded friend speech you can still come across as not genuine. If he really is a nice guy, then he deserves to get treated nicely.

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What You Can Do to Avoid Being Eyed Up

Dec 14
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There are a few things that you can do that will help you to avoid being eyed up. While you may just be an attractive person that people enjoy looking at you will find that there are a few things that you can do that will allow you to prevent this from being something that becomes a problem. A lot of people don’t realize that they are only setting themselves up to get eyed up when they leave the house.

Dress Appropriate

The way that you dress is going to have a lot to do with the type of attention that you get. If you are showing a lot of skin or wearing something that is particularly eye catching for whatever reason, people are going to look. You need to make sure that you dress in a way that is going to get you the type of attention that you want. If you don’t want to get eyed up, then don’t wear something so eye catching.

Act Appropriate

Whenever you are bringing attention to yourself by acting out, then you are more than likely going to end up getting some looks. Try not to bring a lot of bad attention to yourself by doing things that one normally wouldn’t do in public. These are things that are usually followed by large amounts of alcohol.

Wrong Kind of Attention

You know the wrong kind of attention versus the right kind of attention. Dressing slutty or acting loose are things that can really end up getting you the type of attention that gets you eyed up.

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