Being Asked Out – How to Tell Whether it’s Genuine

May 15
Posted by admin Filed in General

Whenever you are being asked out you will want to know whether or not it is genuine. It can be really disappointing to end up getting asked out only to find out that they did not actually want to go out with you. Make sure that you know how to tell whether or not a person is really actually excited to go out on a date with you.


You should really consider the situation that you were both in when they asked. If there were a lot of people around, then they may have been doing it for show. Think about what was going on before they asked and what went on after they asked. If you feel like they are up to something, then consider who they may have been talking to before they approached you to ask you out on a date. If they seemed nervous when they asked, then they are probably genuine. However, if they seemed bored or nonchalant, then they’re probably not interested. Is it a date they are after or just sex, ask yourself if you have seen them out and about with loads of different partners, has he a known history of NSA dates, check that the location of the meet isn’t a known pick up spot for swingers the more checks you make the more confidence you will have, ask around.


If you make it to the date consider how they act. A lot of people that are on a date that they don’t want to be on will be easy to read. Pay attention to their body language. If they are leaning away from you and not looking at you, then they are not interested. They may end up having their arms crossed and shifting themselves to be away from you. If they are doing these things, then they probably never wanted to be on the date so don’t waste your time.

Comments Off

Help Diverting Flirts

Apr 27
Posted by admin Filed in Flirt Divert Tips, General

There are a few things that you will be able to do that will help you in diverting flirts. This is something that can be really annoying and can end up ruining a night. Whether you are simply not interested or not looking to get hit on you will find that there are a few things that you can do that will help the situation.

Friend’s Help

If you happen to be out with your friends, then you are in luck. You can get a friend to come along and help you to get away. Usually, a friend will be able to help you get out of a situation by either getting you away from them or at the very least, pretending they are your boyfriend/girlfriend.

Be Blunt

If you’re out by yourself or your friends are nowhere to be found you may just need to take things into your own hands. Tell them that you are not interested and that you want them to leave. You don’t have to be rude but you may need to be right on the edge of rude so that they get the point.


You may end up needing to leave the area. Either leave the building, or leave where this person seems to be. They will eventually get the hint if you keep dodging them. If they don’t, then threaten to get security or simply leave the area all together. Some people have trouble taking a hint. If you are with friends make sure that they know where you are.

Comments Off

What You Can Do to Avoid Being Eyed Up

Dec 14
Posted by admin Filed in Flirt Divert Tips, General

There are a few things that you can do that will help you to avoid being eyed up. While you may just be an attractive person that people enjoy looking at you will find that there are a few things that you can do that will allow you to prevent this from being something that becomes a problem. A lot of people don’t realize that they are only setting themselves up to get eyed up when they leave the house.

Dress Appropriate

The way that you dress is going to have a lot to do with the type of attention that you get. If you are showing a lot of skin or wearing something that is particularly eye catching for whatever reason, people are going to look. You need to make sure that you dress in a way that is going to get you the type of attention that you want. If you don’t want to get eyed up, then don’t wear something so eye catching.

Act Appropriate

Whenever you are bringing attention to yourself by acting out, then you are more than likely going to end up getting some looks. Try not to bring a lot of bad attention to yourself by doing things that one normally wouldn’t do in public. These are things that are usually followed by large amounts of alcohol.

Wrong Kind of Attention

You know the wrong kind of attention versus the right kind of attention. Dressing slutty or acting loose are things that can really end up getting you the type of attention that gets you eyed up.

Comments Off