I’ve found this article and decided to post it here for you guys. These are some examples of things that work in real life. Enjoy and learn:

“One of the sexiest things a boyfriend ever did for me was serenade me. He was just a pretty good singer and an OK guitar player, but one night with the lights down low, he sang to me. My heart just melted. If you can sing at all, that is a sure way to a woman’s heart!”

- Shannon L., San Rafael, Calif.

“Surprise her. I started seeing someone recently. I work from home, so one afternoon last week, the doorbell rings, which is normal because FedEx delivers a few times a week. But when I answered the door, I had a surprise lunch delivery from a nearby cafe and potted flowers. From my guy! How sweet! It’s a great feeling when you know someone is thinking about you. Unfortunately, when the doorbell rang this week, it was the UPS guy (who is cute, but not my type).”

- D., San Jose

“Men, you should go out of your way, find something that’s special to your girlfriend, and surprise her with it. Once, my boyfriend wrote me a beautiful invitation for a date. He said the evening, which was my birthday, was going to be a surprise. We drove 90 minutes to my hometown and checked into a hotel. We had a very nice dinner and went for a walk around town. One of my favorite singers was playing at the local theater. Sure enough, he had gotten us great seats for the concert. It was the most romantic and best date I’ve ever had.”

- M. & M., Kirkland, Wash.

“It’s important for a guy to show genuine interest. Not just interest because you want to hook up, but because you really want to get to know her.”

- Alison, Northfield, Minn.

“Never underestimate the power of romance to win the girl. My husband and I started dating right at the end of the Colorado ski season. I had spent the season working in Colorado and had decided to move there from California permanently. So I left Colorado to go home to pack up my things. Every day for that month I got something in the mail from my boyfriend. He sent a pine bough, some snow - admittedly melted - in a Ziploc baggie, some dirt from the town where we live, and many, many postcards. It kept him in my mind while we were apart.”

- Andrea Cox, Grand Lake, Colo.

“Take off all clothing while having sex. One time I looked down and saw he was still wearing socks, black, standard-issue socks, though nothing else. I don’t know why it struck me as ridiculous, but it did.”

- Bette Crawford, Philadelphia