• Be subtle, and by subtle I mean, asking the right questions the right way. Try to know more about what she likes/dislikes by asking usual, simple questions about her life, like her job, and her hobbies. Try finding out what interesting things she did last weekend. You’ll be able to grab some precious information without being too nosy.
  • Keep her curious. Start a conversation by declaring something that will make her wonder. You don’t need to use too much brain mass on your announcement. Something random and ordinary will do just fine for example: “I had most amazing time this weekend!” Leave the rest to her imagination, make her ask you why. And then tell her something funny about your adventurous weekend.
  • Post your photos, and by photos I mean more than just one. Show your face in vivid, bright ambiance. Dark photos will make your dates think you’re hiding something. If you don’t post at least one photo people won’t even bother to read your profile. To be honest they won’t even open your profile because on searches most people select the option to see profiles with photos.
  • When you log out for the day, leave a somewhat evocative sign off. Most people just say a ordinary good bye or good night. If you really had fun say something more subtle but challenging like, “It was nice talking to you, too bad you’re so far away.”
  • Try to reply to your e-mails as fast as you can. This demonstrates to the person sending the message that you’re dating for real and you’re not just another kid killing time on a website.