How to Take Things Sexual

Author: datinggun

7 Oct

So you’ve got the digits, you’ve been hanging out for a few dates, and you want to get things to another level. The usual factor is that you probably want to take things sexual, but you aren’t really sure how to do it because it might be too early and it might ruin your game. Let me tell you something, if keep hanging out without mentioning sex you will end up in the “friend zone.” To take things sexual with the girl you have to take it slow, it’s almost like climbing a mountain.

1. She’s not your buddy.

If a girl is using you as her therapist, then you’re already at the “friend zone”. Don’t let casual small talk ruin the romance. If you want to generate some sexual tension you need to challenge her and tease her. Challenging her is related with making her prove herself to you, and teasing her is about being playful and making her laugh. Make her talk about what she likes in a relationship and about her fantasies.

2. Touch her passionately

If you want to escalate to a sexual relationship you can’t touch her the same way you would touch your friends. Forget about the kiss on the cheeks or the “carebear” hugs. To stimulate your girl you need to tickle her and play fighting or bumping her as you walk with her. That’s the kind of stuff to which you don’t need an excuse. If you want to get more romantic you could try holding her hand or putting your arm around her. Just make sure you avoid all the casual friendship actions and act as as if you were her lover already.

3. Seduction

Last but not least, you need to transmit a seductive body language. We got a whole article dedicated to body language and you can find a lot of good info about how to turn things sexual just by using your body. I’ll leave some examples here:

Eye contact – Never look down. Hold strong eye contact.

Talk in a relaxed way, don’t rush your speech.

Look at her and make her understand that you desire her.