Get on your dancing shoes! Tonight we’re going to learn how to talk to girls. First of all, a lot of people asked for an article about “how to approach a girl“. I told you already in another article that approaching women is not the hardest thing. To be honest, it’s easiest thing in the world. You simply go to her and say “hi” or some joke. The less easier part it’s when you have to talk to her. Make her laugh, make her have a good time with you. My article about pick-up lines is exactly about that subject. Check it out later.

Here’s some of my guidelines when approaching/talking to a girl:

1 - No sucking up! She’ll assume your just making conversation and not interested in her, and the chit-chat will eventually become dull… In some worst case scenarios she will see you as a needy person which is really bad.

2 - When you’re with your male friends you always have a good time don’t you? You laugh out of idiot stuff, you’re always joking around and you don’t worry about what you say. You have to apply that same spirit when you’re talking to a girl, instead of getting all serious. When you stop being yourself out of fear of saying something stupid you lose your creativity and become really boring.

3 - Don’t stress. It’s really hard to talk when you’re nervous, not just because the words won’t come out well but also because you won’t be able to think about something to say. If you have some common ground with her, then it should be easy to find a conversation topic. If you don’t you should practice your conversation skills, not just with women, but everyone you meet on the street.

4 -  Act like a kid. I’m not telling you to be a spoiled brat, but to be yourself. When you were a kid it didn’t matter if you said something silly. To be honest the point was to be silly. You probably called names or wrestled on the dirt, and all that just to have a good laugh. A lot of the people I know stop playing because they are afraid of others looking at them in a negative way. What most people don’t know is that this is a great way to flirt and it’s important in every relationship. It builds tension and it makes you look confident and fun.