The most important thing to keep in mind is that the first days of school are the most important, because those are the days where you get to meet people and it’s considered standard routine. That’s what first days are all about. It’s all about finding who will be your new friends for the rest of the journey. Follow these tips and use the “first days” as an advantage to meet new girls.

1. Dating in the classroom

During the first days, the most common situation in a classroom is people sitting far away from each other. This happens because everyone is feeling insecure and uncomfortable, wishing that someone would take the first step to talk to them. You would probably think the same thing.

The right thing to do here is to transmit a sense of self confidence, because that’s what will distinguish you from the introverted people. We’ve seen how to spread that kind of feeling to people, but in case you want to go deeper in that matter, check this out this great article about self confidence. Anyway, when you get to your class room always put your head straight, and look at the people inside the room, and never ever look at the floor as if you were avoiding eye contact. Start roaming for someone interesting. Once you find that someone, take the initiative and sit right next to that person.

Don’t worry if she seems reticent, because most of these girls are pretty anxious and one of the consequences of displaying confidence is that people around you may become intimidated.

When you approach your seat, which is right next to her, smile and present yourself, don’t do nothing too fancy, just say something simple like: “Hi I’m Joe, what’s your name?”

And there you go, pretty simple eh? What happens next is that you’ve just established a connection there. You were probably the first person who actually had the “balls” to talk to her. She will think that you’re a daring, fearless guy, just for doing something so easy.

2. Math’s – getting away with her number

If you want to get her number without looking like a fool, here’s another golden chance to do it. By now you should have a certain level of confidence with this girl, so right before you leave ask her if she wants to trade numbers, just in case one of you misses something at school.

I guarantee 100% that she will give you her number because you already established the rules in the class room when you took that first step. Believe me, she won’t even consider the thought of not giving the number.

3. The best place to meet girls

The library or any other place to study is perfect to meet new people. When you get to one of those places try to target the lonesome girls. Those are the ones who are begging for someone to tell them something. I mean, if you wanted to study alone the best place is not a crowded study center. The girls just go there to study because they would look pathetic if they would just stand there waiting for someone to talk to them. I don’t totally abominate the idea that some of them are really there just to study but it’s easy to tell who’s studying and who’s not.

Usually, the girls who stop reading every minute to look around and see who’s in the room are the ones looking for some “happening”. If a girl is really studying hard she won’t take her eyes out of the books.

The approach method is really easy, simply try to get her to look at you, and when that happens smile at her. It might happen that she won’t reattribute the gesture because you caught her off guard, but if she’s interested she will look at you again. When that happens, go near her, present yourself and ask her name. Tell her you’re just killing time, while you wait for your next class.

4. Last words

It’s really easy to meet girls because they want to meet someone too.

School is scattered by scared, immature guys who are afraid to approach girls and that’s a big mistake, the best thing you could do is to unlock the confidence door to girls, and metalize yourself that all of these things are normal to do, because they really are. Don’t forget to check the article about being confident. It’s a fundamental key if you want this to work.

My last piece of advice is to not expect excellent reactions at first when you smile to a girl. School is not a bar or a specific flirting place. The most common thing to happen is getting her embarrassed. Only a few, very confident girls will immediately respond to that kind of approach. Don’t get discouraged when they turn their eyes away. It’s ok. I guarantee that if she’s interested she will check you out again.

Chances of being rejected? I wouldn’t call it rejection, because if someone rejects you just because you smiled or said “Hi”, then you’re in the presence of someone who’s not worth you’re efforts. Now, go get them and don’t waste the great first day’s opportunities.