Just about anyone would enjoy some fun a Hawaii vacation rental. There are tons of exciting vacation trips to take with friends like vacation Hawaii or even ski vacations. Its nice to be able to take a trip in the sun or enjoy other activities on a family trip and get away from everyday life.

1. Fashion sense! Mandatory!

I’m not telling you to become a super metro sexual, but if you’re stuck on your 90’s fashion era, it’s time to check out what’s hot and, especially, what’s not! Start paying attention to your appearance, especially your casual appearance. Don’t be afraid to change. Changes are good.

2. Clean up the mess.

This is something I almost feel ashamed to say. Folks, start cleaning your stuff. Not just your body, which includes your hair, but also your clothes and apartment or house. You don’t need to be a tidiness aberration, but keep it up to the standards. You don’t want your potential girlfriend finding Mr. Brown on the bathroom or your boxers hanging on the lamp.

3. Sexual Knowledge

Start learning new concepts about sexuality. Don’t expect the knowledge to simply appear on your brain when the action comes. There are a lot of books out there explaining how women work sexually, start by checking this great article. The internet is a great source of knowledge, which gives you all the information you need about women. There’s simply no excuse. By the way, we are reviewing some books at the moment and we will probably make a post telling you which books are good. We are creating a new section dedicated just to sexuality. We’ll tell you more about it later.

4. Listen to her.

People might think this is easy, but it’s not. Being a good listener requires a great concentration power. Sometimes the subject is something we aren’t interested, but try respecting your potential girl and pay attention to what she’s saying. Try to pay special attention to three facts:

• What she likes;
• What she hates;
• What do you have in common.

5. Don’t spend too much, too soon.

Don’t scare your girl by giving her great gifts. Try demonstrating your affection with little actions. Things that will make her believe that you actually care about her. Instead of a big diamond ring, get her favorite soundtrack and play it in your car when you two go out on trip. That’s the kind of thing which will surprise her and make her happy because you didn’t forget about her musical taste.

6. Friend zone siren!

Don’t step in the friend zone. You don’t need to be an antipathic guy, but you don’t want to be her best friend yet. If you’re hanging out with her a lot and nothing happened, that means you’re already trapped in the friend zone. The bad news: Not everyone will manage to get out of there, so the best thing is to prevent the friend zone. Don’t let things get to that point. You should be her best friend when things get romantic, but until then let someone else do that job.

7. The love balance.

Don’t let a girl use you. If your relationship with a girl is just starting out, don’t give your affection without getting some retribution. You should make the first step when it comes to “giving” but if you’re not getting anything in return then jump of the boat. You’re not a butler or a servant. Show her that you’ll do what you should but pay special attention for her requests. If you think she’s using you, put her to the test and ask her to do something for you too. If she’s not able to do it start trading with the same coin. If she can’t do something for you then you shouldn’t be doing stuff for her.

8. You make the rules.

When it comes to choosing what activities both of you are going to do, you have to make the choices. Don’t wait for your girl to come up with the ideas. Show her that you know how to have fun. Show off your creativity and instead of taking her out to dinner like everyone else, go to some special, unusual place. Unless she has something in mind already, you should always be prepared with a list of cool places to go.

9. Sense of humor.

I thought twice before putting this one here. Well, I guess it’s ok to remind some guys. Anyway, as I’ve said before, don’t try to make her laugh as if you were looking for spectators for you comedy show, and don’t waste time memorizing lines. Try improvisation and make sure you’re able to laugh at yourself when things don’t go well. That will make a good impact! If you need some help in coming out with jokes take a look at this cool article about teasing and being funny.

10. Serious relationship.

If things get serious, take the serious relationship path. Above everything else, be real. Don’t play the usual dating games like the “one week after” phone calls etc. Treat your girlfriend well and make her understand that your goal is exactly a “serious connection”. I’m not telling you to get serious on your second date. That would ruin everything! I’m telling you to get serious after a while of hanging out and having some romantic moments. If you feel that she is the woman of your life then give her the ring. And the flowers of course.

Check out the article we released today: “How to make her fall in love - Chapter 1” – It has a lot of information about serious relationships.