Statistics don’t lie and believe me, according to the latest studies, the average woman only takes 5 minutes to understand if she fancy’s you or not. That’s why I’ve always advised people to assist first impressions by using a good body language, because besides the content of your conversation, the only thing that pops out to the sight it’s your moves.

First impressions
When it comes to first impressions I don’t believe in the power of speech, I tend to think that way because I’ve seen a lot of good public speakers giving it all away before they even said anything. The truth is that, when you make a primary eye contact with a woman and you walk to her, she already made 80% of her first impression of you.
First impressions are all about your appearance, posture and moves. So, the only way to be successful is learn how to send out the right vibes and also how to read them.

The five signals that someone is flirting with you:

• The eyes

When someone is not familiar with you, their eyes tend to roam the zone comprehended by your eyes and your nose, and when they feel more comfortable with you they will roam the a bit lower including your nose and mouth in the equation.
Once the flirting starts, that area tends to become bigger and it goes till the bottom including other parts, such as the body. The more intense it gets, the more intensively they will look from eye to eye and the more time they will spent looking at your mouth.

• Mirroring

Mirroring is basically when someone is copying your moves successively, and it has a very strong bonding power. The theory says that we tend to like other people who is like us. Copying someone’s moves transmits the message that you’re both on the same level and also on the same mood. However there’s two things you should consider when mirroring, the first one is that you should realize it’s not “Simon says”, it’s about capturing the spirit of the other person. The other rule says you should only mirror positive moves, which is kind of obvious.

• The eyebrow flash trick.

You probably haven’t noticed, but every time we meet someone attractive our eyebrows get higher and drop. If the person is similarly attracted, they do the same exact thing. It’s ok if you never noticed - the flash takes 1/50 of a second. The interesting thing about this is that if you simulate this move, a bit slowly, it has the same effect. The trick is to watch out for that sign or execute it yourself precisely when you get eye contact.

• Pointing.

One of the most interesting and unconscious moves that we make is pointing, and when I refer to pointing I don’t mean directly aiming with your hand. I mean moving parts of your body towards someone. It could be your arms, feet, legs, toes.
So if you’re not being very successful on making eye contact you can move your body towards someone and they may take the hint. This works well if you’re far away from that someone.

• Blinking

When someone feels attracted to you, their pupil size increases - no news here. But the interesting thing is that their blink rate will try to match yours in order to unconsciously stay synchronized with you, consequently making both of you feel even more attracted to each other.

Final words
Before you try these techniques, keep in mind that there are other factors conditioning your body language. A girl with her arms crossed means she’s on a defensive position, but we all cross our arms when we’re cold. Try to gather more than 3 positive factors before you take your chances.