This next tip is about something that happened once, and it was almost like a turning point in my dating life. In that moment I was presented to the meaning of a simple word which sums up and includes attracting women – unconcern.

Pretty much anyone can enjoy some fun a Hawaii vacation rental. There are many fun family trips to book with the family like ski resorts or even Hawaii vacations. Its nice to be able to go on a trip in the sun or enjoy other activities on a vacation and get away from everyday life.

I was out at the bar some time ago, and this very handsome girl was standing next to me while I was having a drink. She asked me what was I drinking (probably because of the color of the drink) and I told her it was a vodka martini. As I was finishing my drink she asked me if we could both get two of those drinks.

Since I was completely out of money I simply said devotedly, “Ok! You’re paying?” She was surprised and reacted with an offended “No!” I kept my confidence and simply turned my back and started chatting with another person.

A few minutes later, she taps me on the back and a passes me a vodka martini. She had one herself and she started telling me how odd it was for her to buy a drink for a guy, etc.

Anyway, the history moral here is that being unconcerned about insignificant things towards women kind of attracts them. Not being concerned is all about not worrying with insignificant situations, and if you’re not worried then you’re transmitting confidence which is exactly what it’s told in our “Confidence” article.

Don’t react to silly things, ever. Simply ignore them, turn your back and continue enjoying your night regardless of what happens. If you start giving little excuses for everything you will transmit the image of a needy, worried person and women simply don’t like that.